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Who Should Say I Love You First?

Posted by Christie - 27/01/12 at 08:01 am

A debate has been raging here at CG Central — a debate of epic proportions (at least TWO dinner parties and one long string of emails).  It centers around the age old question that has taunted philosophers, monarchs, and small children alike: Who should say “I love you” first?

Yes. YES. We know you understand.  See, the working theory here at CG Central is that both parties know in advance.  There is a moment when you realize that you are in love with the person you are dating, and usually in that moment you go: “oooooohhh” but you don’t say anything….yet.  You hold onto it because you aren’t sure of the other person’s feelings, you don’t want to move to fast, it’s a really odd time. Whatever the reason…you hold back.  But should it matter who says it first? If two parties love each other then isn’t everything kosher regardless of the three words of potential doom?

Well, we are tired of debating.  We throw in the very small towel and ask you, dear readers, to decide.  You tell us: Boy or Girl — does it matter who says I love you first?

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