THE URBAN GIRL'S SURVIVAL GUIDE

Do You Lie on Your Dating Profile?

Posted by Jess - 22/07/10 at 09:07 am

According to OkCupid, many of us are less than honest about our online profiles. Among the facts uncovered….

1. Not all men are actually 6ft tall. Here’s a fact that Christie has been preaching for years. Apparently, 6ft is basically the gold standard for all men so it’s common to “round up.”

2. Women lie about their height too. I guess some of us have that model fantasy but I’m 5′2″ and happy about it. I figure it keeps the dating pool wide open. All men are taller than me and I can wear the highest heels I want. Why would I want to stretch it?

3. People are not as rich as they say. Turns out, we’re all lying about this one (although personally, I never answer that question). Men are stretching the truth further than women but on average, there’s about a 20% inflation represented in online profiles.

4. Profile photos aren’t always recentAren’t they sneaky over at OKC? They went back to the photo coding and they can see when the file was created. They worked it out that the most attractive photos are the most likely to be out of date. That makes sense to me though. It’s not often you take a really great photo of yourself. When you do, you tend to hang onto it longer. My advice is just to mention the date in the caption.

5. Bisexuals aren’t bisexuals. Apparently, people who categorize themselves as bi-sexuals are spending the majority of their time contacting only one gender category. I have no idea why and nothing more to say on it.

Read the full study here.

Do you ever lie on your profile? Have you ever met someone in person and felt that had misled you with their profile?

Share |
  • Bourbon Toddy
    Lying might be the way to go. I tried to sign up on eHarmony yesterday and was COMPLETELY honest and they flat out told me they could NOT predict any matches for me and basically gave up on me before I'd even begun. OUCH! It made me think of your blog the other day about not having time to date. Maybe eHarmony could tell I'm a workaholic that isn't looking for anything serious. But maybe if I met the right man I would change my ways. Maybe... Cheers, T.
  • So true about the heels thing. I totally select footwear according to my date's height.
  • Stephie G.
    I agree, CityGirls! This height thing is akin to other numbers that men round up (or down)...wink, wink. I am finding that 6'2" is the new 6", however. Men say they are 6'2" because, after they put on their shoes with a bit of a heel, or their sneakers, they are indeed 6'2". Errr, no, that's not how it works, gentlemen! Just be honest about it. If a girl cares about height, trust me, she will know you are lying the minute she sees you. And then, you already have a strike against you: you weren't honest before you even met!! Or, two strikes against you: you weren't honest AND you are short (and made her look like a fool for thinking she could wear 3" heels and still be shorter than you!).
  • people lie to your face about their sexuality & riches so I'm not surprised that they would lie online! Which is prob why I have yet to search for love on an online dating site, but if I"m 30 and still single I most def will, what else will I have to lose :) !!! Love the post ladies, thanks for the info...http://phillyitgirls.com
  • Caveat: Men who list their height as 6'1" or above, however, are never lying. They tend to actually be that height!
  • SweetSiren
    I almost always knock off one or two inches from the height that men list in their profiles. I can count on one hand how many times I've met someone in person whose height was exactly what they listed in the profile.
  • I typically subtract 2 inches from what a guy says on his profile IF he's under 6' FT. Guys that say they are 5'10 are probably 5'8 on a GOOD day.
blog comments powered by Disqus